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    • The Tsunami Situation – December 2019 Debt Report
    • The Tsunami Situation – January 2020 Debt Report

The Tsunami Situation (Debt Report)

The Tsunami Situation – October 2019 Debt Report

November 2, 2019 by tanya

Each month, I record the balances on my debt obligations. The amounts shown in my debt report reflect balances as of the end of the previous month.

Audio version of this post, read by the author.

See below for the figures as of the end of October, 2019.

Based on the figures above, the difference between my September and October debt total is $5,352.76. Plus, I paid off the balances due for my 2018 Federal ($3,238) and State ($2,819) taxes.

Those two debts did not did not make it into my debt snowball because I learned what my obligations were in September and paid them both in October using a commission I earned through my real estate sales side hustle.



How long should you try? Until.

~Jim Rohn


I’m very excited about having made significant strides last month. It feels so good to make large payments on individual debts. It feels even better to pay off a debt altogether and see a zero balance. I have 10 more debts to go. Note that I’ve listed the debts in the order of the lowest balance to the highest. However, I plan to pay off my home mortgages last. I’ll target Navient before going hard on either the first or second mortgage, despite the fact that the second mortgage balance is much lower than both of the student loan balances. 


Though I know that every month won’t be as productive as this one was, it is encouraging to know that it can happen and that it did happen for me. For it to have happened at the front end of this journey really adds fuel to my debt-free fire. I’ll just keep plugging away.

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The Tsunami Situation – Tax Edition

October 5, 2019 by tanya

Houston, we have a tax problem. 

The tax filing extension deadline was September 15 for S-corporations (and LLCs that have elected S-corporation tax status). As a business owner, my personal taxes are integrally related to my business taxes, so we handle all of the returns at the same time. On September 14,  my accountant informed me that I’m looking at yet another personal tax bill. 


Audio version of this blog post, read by the author.

My 2018 outstanding tax obligation is: $3,238 to the IRS and $2,819 to the state.

Shit.

Since 2014, a couple of years into my entrepreneurial journey, I have always had a tax bill at filing time – a bill that I never had the resources to pay in one lump sum. Every year,  I’ve found myself on some payment plan – usually with both the IRS and the state. 

Apparently, 2018 is no different. 

W-2 “Employee” Income

A few years ago, my accountant and I discussed potential ways to remedy my consistent tax problem. I filed with the IRS the election to have the business taxed as an S-corporation. The business is registered as a limited liability company (LLC). Single-member LLCs will, by default, be treated entirely as pass-through (disregarded)  entities for tax purposes, or can, alternatively, elect to be taxed as an S-corporation by filing IRS Form 2553. 

S-corp tax status offers the benefit of reducing the amount of the owner’s income that is subject to the self-employment tax. The owner of an entity taxed as an S-corp is deemed to be an employee of the company (and is supposed to pay him or herself reasonable compensation) and only the wages paid to the owner/employee are subject to the FICA tax.  The FICA tax funds Social Security and Medicare. By being an employee, the business owner treats themselves as a true W-2 employee, including doing the payroll deductions that go along with employee compensation. In addition to the W-2 wages, a business owner can also receive distributions from the business. The distributions, generally, are not subject to FICA taxes.  This allows a business owner to reduce his or her FICA tax obligation while still complying with the law. An owner of a business taxed as an S-corp is likely to pay themselves W-2 wages and take money out of the business in the form of distributions. 

Setting myself up on payroll was something that I hoped would put some structure around the freestyle nature by which I had been handling income I was paying to myself out of the business. As an employee, I’d have to pay myself reasonable compensation. With the W-2 status, I would be paying taxes out of each check I received from the business. That would mean that I’d be paying taxes throughout the year, instead of leaving the payment to tax time – when I was not likely to have the money to cover the whole obligation. 

Oh, how I thought I had figured it out this year because, in 2018, I paid taxes consistently through the compensation I paid myself through the payroll service I’ve set up for the business.

Side Hustle Income – The Challenge Is Real

Though I did better than in years past, I didn’t do well enough. I thought that the money I paid through my W-2 income would cover any additional taxes that I might owe from other income. It was wishful thinking because, frankly, I didn’t do the math. 

In 2018, I had some significant side hustle income. I taught a course on a national platform and earned just over $21,000 for the 9 months during which I taught the program. I also earned just under $8,000 in businesses with my attorney colleague (yes, the one I mention in my post titled  I Used to Have A Job). 

I didn’t reserve any funds out of these payments for taxes. Of course, I know, as do most self-employed persons, that I should set aside some funds when I earn the money so that I don’t get jammed up later. You would think that, after owing outstanding taxes every year since 2014, that I would have changed my program and developed the discipline to stop this crazy cycle. 

Well, we often know what to do, but don’t go about doing it. That’s why people are fat, broke and baby mamas and baby daddies several times over. Because I was so disorganized and wasn’t paying close enough attention to my finances, I felt that I needed all of the side hustle money that was coming in. I needed it to live. To pay bills. I figured that I’d just have to deal with the consequences later. Hence, I find myself here – yet again – facing a tax bill of several thousands of dollars. 

This is a pervasive problem among business owners and people who are self-employed. I have colleagues who either don’t pay themselves as a W-2 employee of their company (even though they are supposed to) or don’t make the quarterly estimated tax payments that are supposed to be made by the self-employed. The quarterly estimated payments requirement includes all contractors and others who get paid 1099 income, like real estate agents, financial advisors, insurance sales folks and the like. A former client of mine operates a business bringing in several millions of dollars annually, and avoided paying taxes for years because the bill surpassed the $300,000 mark. He knew that he’d have to pay it, eventually, but he struggled for a while to prepare himself to have to write such a hefty check. He had allowed the problem to become too severe. So many others do, as well. I’m not talking about the tax evaders à la Lauryn Hill, Pete Rose, Wesley Snipes and Mike “The Situation” Sorrentino. I’m talking about people, like myself, who are so wrapped up in living from day-to-day that they neglect to exercise the financial discipline that they should. 

There’s a reason the IRS requires employers to withhold funds from employee wages; without that requirement, many, many people would not have the discipline to pay their taxes in a timely fashion.

Separate Tax Snowball

In my debt repayment journey, I’m employing the debt snowball method. The debt snowball method, as opposed to the debt avalanche method, has a debtor focus on the repayment of debts that have the lowest balance, as opposed to those that have the highest interest rates. Once the debt with the lowest balance is paid off, the minimum payment for that debt gets added to the minimum payment for the next debt in line – the debt with the next lowest balance. 

For me, the debt snowball method is the better choice, simply because my journey is likely to be long. I’ve got over $300,000 of debt to tackle! I need to see some results that will help me want to continue on the journey. By getting rid of some small debts first, I’ll have the little wins along the way that will help me feel like I’m actually making some progress. 

With the way my payment plan with the IRS is set up, it doesn’t fit cleanly into the traditional debt snowball format. Each month, I pay the IRS a lump sum of $550. Unlike credit card debt, each IRS debt year does not have a minimum payment. Instead, I just have one minimum payment (the $550) that goes toward the payment of my overall tax debt. The IRS applies the entire payment to the oldest tax year’s debt. Here’s how my tax balances look today, not accounting for the new 2018 taxes owed. 

Taxes balances as of the end of September.

Right now, the entire $550 monthly payment goes only toward the reduction of the 2015 balance, while the 2016 and 2017 balances continue to go up on account of interest (and probably some penalties as well). 

When I finish paying off the 2015 bill, the $550 payment will then start to go toward the 2016 bill, while the 2017 balance will continue to increase. Each month, the increase in the 2016 and 2017 bills goes up. For example, between the months  of July and August, the balances increased by $55.25 and $58.29, respectively. Then, between the months of August and September, the balances increased by $62.10 and $65.29, respectively.

Even though the next lowest balance  in my debt snowball – after paying off the IRS 2016 balance – would be the debt to my mom for the plane ticket, the $550 payment will go to the other IRS bill instead of the next debt up in my snowball. For that reason, I treat the IRS debt as if it has its own, separate snowball. 

Dave Ramsey would say that all of the tax debt should be at the front of my debt snowball, even though the balances aren’t the lowest balances for all my debt. His position is, basically, that it is best not to mess with the IRS and to get them repaid as soon as possible. According to him, they should be an exception to the normal debt snowball rule that debts should be paid off in order of the lowest balance to the highest. 

According to me, however, I need to feel like I’m making progress. I can’t be buried in these payments to the IRS and not feel like I’m making any traction. From a purely financial perspective, I get what Dave is saying. From an emotional perspective, I need to do what I gotta do to stay motivated and intense about this. I’ve got to pay some little debts off while making the payments to the IRS under my payment plan.

Knowing Better and Doing Better

I am determined that I will conquer this in 2020 and that 2019 will be the last year for which I will be unprepared to pay all of the taxes I owe at tax filing time. 

I’m also thinking that while I continue to make the $550 payment, I should make small payments on each of the other years so that the balances don’t continue to increase. 

What do you think about that? Should I stick with a focus on the one payment (just 2015), or start making the additional payments to the later years, while paying on the oldest year?

Filed Under: The Tsunami Situation (Debt Report) Tagged With: Debt Snowball, Side Hustles, Taxes

The Tsunami Situation – September 2019 Debt Report

October 3, 2019 by tanya

Each month, I record the balances on my debt obligations. Beginning this month, I’ll start sharing my debt balances here. The amounts shown reflect the balance as of the end of the previous month. See below for the figures as of September, 2019. 

Audio version of this post, read by the author.

If I include the debt owed to Mom, August’s debt total was $330,477.49. The difference between August and September’s debt total is $1,943.67. For someone facing the extreme amount of debt that I am, a reduction of just under $2,000 each month isn’t significant. At this rate, I’ll be in debt for the next 14 years (literally, it’s 169 months!). This is not acceptable to me at all. I intend to make quantum leaps in my debt repayment. Stay tuned. 

My focus right now is in developing the habits that will ensure my long-term financial health. These habits include: (1) budgeting, (2) expense tracking, and, of course (3) a more austere lifestyle. I’ve cut a lot of luxuries over the last several months. Cable was cut in 2018. I haven’t gotten a mani-pedi since last year. I no longer have a gym membership. I don’t pay for car washes (I can get it washed at the dealership for free). I decreased my grocery budget to not exceed $120 per month (i.e., no more than $30 per week). Eating out and consuming pre-prepared foods has been significantly reduced (I do eat out on dates or when I have a business meeting). I don’t go to nearly as many events as I used to in the past.  I haven’t bought any clothing or accessories in several months. Though I can’t say that I don’t ever get some fries off the $1 menu, that I won’t reinstate my gym membership, or that I won’t buy any clothing again until I’m debt free, I have definitely made significant cuts in lifestyle. 

Additionally, I’m focused on increasing my income. According to my budget for October, I should be able to pay off much more than $2,000. 

Filed Under: Lifestyle, The Tsunami Situation (Debt Report) Tagged With: Debt Report

Single Girl’s Tsunami Situation

September 8, 2019 by tanya

When I say I’m in the midst of a tsunami, I’m not being dramatic. Dave Ramsey would be disgusted by my circumstances. I say this in complete seriousness: people commit suicide over less. I’m in a situation. Perhaps I should call on the governor, as this is, indeed, a state of emergency. 


Audio file of this blog post, read by the author.

I’ve got all kinds of debt – credit cards, a car note, back taxes owed to the IRS, mortgages and a small amount I owe to my mom for an expensive international airline ticket. I’ve also got business debt – one credit card with a large balance. I’ve got a lot going on. 

The funny thing is this: I don’t have a closet full of designer clothes or bags. I have almost no jewelry. I, have not one single pair Louboutins . . . no Louis Vuittons, no Chanel, no Gucci . . . none of that.  Wait. I have one pair of Gucci sunglasses that I wear all the time. That’s it. Despite the fondness that some folks seem to have for my booty, it’s real, so I’ve paid nothing for it. I’ve had no cosmetic surgery. I don’t have an extensive self-care regimen involving botox or other injections or blood facials or any of that other high-end stuff that makes people say, “WTF? People spend money on that?” 

The issue is not really that I’ve been extravagant. I just wasn’t paying attention. I also wasn’t being intentional. I was under the impression that I could do things that I simply wasn’t in the financial position to do. Part of me also wants to say that I was surviving. When you see the balances for the tax payments due to the Internal Revenue Service, it is clear that I was receiving income, but wasn’t doing a good job of paying the quarterly taxes that a self-employed person should pay. (I’m now a W-2 employee of the business so my taxes come right out of my bi-weekly paycheck. I’ve obviously still got a mess to fix, though.) I was using the money to live. I was using the money to pay bills. But, I was also using the money to live a lifestyle that I believed I deserved, but that I, frankly, could not afford. 

Though my closet isn’t full of designer items, I do have a body that has consumed a number of high-end meals – high-end meals from restaurants that others view as “special occasion” restaurants. I used to eat out a lot. A lot. I’d go to whatever restaurant I felt like going to because . . . that’s where I wanted to go. There was no “special occasion” restaurant for me. Additionally, I have a specialized diet. My primary protein has been seafood (although that’s changing, too). Seafood isn’t cheap. When I was trying to be “low budget”, I’d get my crab legs and salmon from the grocery store and prepare those items myself. One pound of crab legs can be $11 to $13 per pound. I’d do this with absolutely no regard for the cost. I know. Silly. 

There have also been times when my income was just too low. I think that’s still the case. I’ve been self-employed for just short of 7 years now and my income has not been consistent. Though the firm’s annual revenues have increased every year with the exception of 1, expenses have increased as well. I tell people that, even as a lawyer, this self-employment thing is a hustle. Some months it feels more like a hustle than others. Some months have been great; other months have been a disaster. Instead of being fully aware of my income reductions and/or shortfalls and making the appropriate behavioral decisions at that time, I continued to act as if nothing had changed. I blame no one but myself for all of this.

Single Girl’s Tsunami

Personal Credit Card Debt

  • Credit Card 1 $8,568
  • Credit Card 2 $1,322
  • Credit Card 3 $6,897
  • Credit Card 4 $13,175
    • TOTAL PERSONAL CREDIT CARDS: $29,962

Car Debt

  • Car Loan $18,454

Mortgage Debt

  • Mortgage 1 $78,041
  • Mortgage 2 $29,610
    • TOTAL MORTGAGES: $107,651

Back Taxes

  • IRS – 2015 Taxes $1,225
  • IRS – 2016 Taxes $10,204
  • IRS – 2017 Taxes $10,349
    • TOTAL TAXES: $21,778

Student Loan Debt

  • Student Loan 1 $64,864
  • Student Loan 2 $86,734
    • TOTAL STUDENT LOANS: $151,598

Business Credit Card Debt

  • Business Credit Card $24,385

Miscellaneous

  • International Airline Ticket** $1,072

** Why would a girl in my situation even consider a vacation, let alone an international one? The short answer: the ball was already rolling on the trip when I made the decision to be serious about cleaning up my financial life. Remember, I’ve only recently become totally, undeniably sober about the severity of my circumstances. Every year over the past several years, my family takes a group vacation. We’re a pretty close family in that we have a core group that has been committed to coming together from our respective parts of the country at least once per year. Our destinations have included the Bahamas, the Dominican Republic, Mexico and Las Vegas. The planning for this year’s trip began late last year/early this year. So, as Single Girl was coming to the reality of her dire situation over the last few months, she realized that, though the plane ticket had already been purchased by mom on her behalf, she really shouldn’t go on the trip this year. Single Girl has almost always been the planner of these family trips, but notwithstanding that, this year she came to the realization that a trip would be a terrible idea. When I broke the news to my family, my mother went bananas. She called my father – telling him that I was eating on $25 a month (she was, apparently, confused by the $25 per week food budget that I’ve allocated for myself). He then called me asking for my PayPal information. She even hit me with the “this is about family and family is most important.” Jesus Christ, Mom. So, with the influx of funds that month from both my Mom, my father and even my little brother, I was given some breathing room on my cash flow. I told my mother that, if she allowed me to pay her back in payments for the airline ticket, I would be able to go on the trip this year. But . . . I warned my family . . . don’t expect me to go to nuthin’ else – NUTHIN’! – until I make some serious headway on this mess I’m in. 

When I started this blog, my total debt about was $332,547. Today, the total is $329,406.29 (excluding the business credit card, which does not get paid out of my personal income). At the end of each month, I review each of my balances and capture them into a Google sheet. I’m finalizing my plan of attack, which I will lay out in future posts.

Isn’t this a disaster? Aren’t you glad you can say to yourself, “At least I’m not doing this badly?”

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